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How do I find my life purpose?

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How do I find my life purpose

One of the greatest unanswered questions is “How do I find my life purpose?”

The question goes unanswered because it’s an infinite loop. Like “Why can’t I find the right answer?”. It’s a question that in it contains another question. So no matter how many times you ask it, it can never be fully answered. It’s the wrong question.

Entrepreneurs and leaders find their ‘why’ when they change the question from “How do I find my life purpose” to 3 simpler questions:

1. “What was my purpose today?”

Your purpose is your contribution, and you already contributed today. You contributed time and effort to something, and that’s your purpose today. If you contributed to helping a team mate, to serving a customer, to driving your kids to school. That was today’s purpose.

So you already have a purpose. It’s just that it’s often an unintended purpose. As David Letterman says, “Everyone has a purpose in life. Perhaps yours is watching television.”

2. “How will I make my purpose more meaningful tomorrow?”

You can change how and who you contribute to tomorrow. As you raise your level of giving, in simple, daily steps, you raise the meaningfulness of your purpose each day. You see the daily impact your giving gets. Purpose becomes a daily journey instead of a life destination.

“A life without cause is a life without effect.” ~ Paulo Coelho

3. “What am I willing to sacrifice?”

At some point of your giving, you get to the end of your comfort zone, where giving more of yourself becomes inconvenient. Without sacrifice, you cannot give more. Many stop at this point, and so reach the limit of their “why” and their “how” and so fail to reach their superpowers.

Victor E. Frankl wrote in his classic ‘Man’s Search for Meaning’, “Those who have a ‘why’ to live, can bear with almost any ‘how’.”

That greater “why” is linked to what you’re willing to give up for your cause. It’s on the other side of this pain threshold of sacrifice and suffering that we finally meet our true purpose.

If you’re on this journey at this third step, you’re probably finding yourself misunderstood.

You hear people say “workaholic” when you say “committed”.

You hear them say “risk taker” when you say “persevering”.

You hear them say “suffering” when you say “loving.”

And when they ask you, “why are you doing this anyway?” and you can’t easily answer because you can’t yet articulate your “life purpose”, it can lead to seeds of doubt.

Don’t give up! You’re already deep into the journey. And the pay-off of purpose is not just the end of all uncertainty, but also the end of all suffering.

“I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.” ~ Mother Teresa

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Creative Advice from 11 World Famous Architects

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Creative advice from 11 world-famous architects

As a creative entrepreneur, you’re probably no stranger to the ups and downs of inspiration. Motivation can come in waves, and when it’s gone, productivity can take a pretty major hit.

It’s impossible to stay constantly inspired all of the time. However, when we notice our creative spark fade, it’s important to engage in activities that rekindle the fire. Often, this means unplugging, pursuing a hobby, or talking with a friend or mentor.

Another great way to boost motivation is to look to other successful creatives. Architects, in particular, make great creative role models because of their ability to juggle multiple tasks and oversee projects like a pro. Check out the visual below for creative inspiration from 11 world-famous architects.

 

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Is your daily routine mindful or mindless?

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Is your daily routine mindful or mindless?

Do you serve a customer to make money? Or do you serve a customer to serve a customer? Do you wash dishes to get them clean? Or do you wash the dishes to wash the dishes?

Here’s a story from Buddhist Monk, Thich Nhat Hanh, about ‘washing the dishes to wash the dishes’ and the difference between mindful and mindless:

“In the United States, I have a close friend named Jim Forest… Last winter, Jim came to visit. I usually wash the dishes after we’ve finished the evening meal, before sitting down and drinking tea with everyone else.

One night, Jim asked if he might do the dishes. I said, “Go ahead, but
if you wash the dishes you must know the way to wash them.” Jim replied, “Come on, you think I don’t know how to wash the dishes?” I answered, “There are two ways to wash the dishes. The first is to wash the dishes in order to have clean dishes and the second is to wash the dishes
in order to wash the dishes.”

Jim was delighted and said, “I choose the second way-to wash the dishes to wash the dishes.” From then on, Jim knew how to wash the dishes. I transferred the “responsibility” to him for an entire week.

If while washing dishes, we think only of the cup of tea that awaits us, thus hurrying to get the dishes out of the way as if they were a nuisance, then we are not “washing the dishes to wash the dishes.”

What’s more, we are not alive during the time we are washing the dishes.
In fact we are completely incapable of realizing the miracle of life while standing at the sink.

If we can’t wash the dishes, the chances are we won’t be able to drink our tea either. While drinking the cup of tea, we will only be thinking of other things, barely aware of the cup in our hands. Thus we are sucked away into the future
– and we are incapable of actually living one minute of life.”

~ Thich Nhat Hanh

Are you focusing more at being successful, or being mindful? It is a conscious choice that shows up in your daily routine – Being present in every moment shows up in the quality of your products, your service, your communication.

Being aware leads to care. It’s the contrast of being careful and being careless. This care becomes quality, and that’s why greater mindfulness leads to greater success.

Your daily routine isn’t a means to an end. It’s an opportunity to experience the miracle of life every day.

“Be here now.”
~ Ram Dass

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5 Quotes for Successful Entrepreneurship

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Quotes for Successful Entrepreneurship

Being a successful entrepreneur is a dreamcometrue for a lot of people out there. Being your own boss, benefiting from your own ingenuity and hard work, as well as creating a legacy are all reasons enough why so many people try to start businesses of their own. However, the majority of these entrepreneurial attempts end in failure. In order to avoid meeting the same fate, you need to examine these five quotes that reveal the entrepreneurship essentials.

1.    The secret of getting ahead is getting started. – Mark Twain

It’s incredibly easy to come up with a million excuses for why something is not worth doing. After all, the business world is a scary place. Gathering the right team is hard, raising funds can be even harder and with the current state of the economy (this is probably the most common excuse), what are your realistic chances of success? The truth is that you just cannot know and you never will. All you’re doing by procrastinating is wasting your own precious time. Instead of wasting energy and creativity to come up with a myriad of excuses, you need to try looking for solutions.

2.    Success is not final; failure is not fatal; it’s the courage to continue that counts. – Winston Churchill

There’s probably no better person in the world to stand behind this statement, seeing as how there aren’t a lot of people in history who had more drastic ups and downs. Winston Churchill’s involvement in WWI resulted in a disaster and, had he given up, the horrendous Gallipoli Operation would have been what history would remember him by. Instead, nowadays he is known as one of the most defiant and victorious characters in human history. Other than this, there have been so many wildly successful entrepreneurs who went bankrupt at one point in their career. Henry Ford and Walt Disney belong on this list.

3.    The problem is not a loss of money or credit, it’s a loss of trust. – David Perry

One of the things that a lot of entrepreneurs seem not to understand is the fact that their reputation and their word seem to be their most valuable assets in the business world. If you underpay your staff or fail to deliver on what you’ve promised, the word will get out. Make one faulty promise to a client and your reputation will quickly be ruined for good. You also have your share of responsibilities when it comes to various financial organizations and if you fail to meet them, you’ll find yourself in a world of trouble. This will primarily reflect on your credit score. The next time you need some funds, it will be a lot harder to obtain them.

4.    If I had asked people what they wanted, they would have said faster horses. – Henry Ford

Doing market research is a pivotal tip to making it in the business world. In fact, about 42 percent of startups fail because there’s no market need for what they’re selling or intend to sell. The biggest problem with this, however, lies in the fact that someone has to be first. At one point in history, Blockbuster refused to buy Netflix for $50 million, due to the fact that they failed to realize the potential behind this business model within the entertainment industry. We all know how this story ended. When it comes to innovation, you sometimes have to listen to your own instincts.

5.    Patience is not the ability to wait but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting. –Jayce Meyer

Succeeding in the business world takes time, however, time alone changes nothing. Developing the right strategy and then ensuring that it’s adhered to is something completely different. You see, in order to make time have any value, you need to set things in motion and then wait for them to unfold. Keep in mind that, in the business world, time is money. This means that making it, in the long run, is a question of financial endurance, as much as it’s a matter of your mental stamina.

Conclusion

To wrap things up with yet another celebrity quote, Mike Tyson once said that everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth. What this means is that regardless of how organized or motivated you are, at one point, you’ll have to start altering your plans and adapting to the situation at hand. How quickly you and your business can evolve is something that will determine the success rate that you’re bound to face in the business world. This alone is definitely something worth bearing in mind.

 

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